爱情比友谊重要英语怎么翻译

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Friendship is widely
Love is the only

Friendship and love, all belong to the generalized love one. Friendship is the basis and premise of love; Love is the development and qualitative change friendship. A link, also have the quality and quantity of differentiation. Friendship can develop into love, love can not go on forever. Young friends in communication between men and women, in the pursuit of love, friendship and love in crossway, how to make an accurate judgment?
About the difference between friendship and love, sometimes really difficult. A Japanese psychological scholars put forward five indicators, available for reference. Five indicators are:

First, the prop different. Friendship is "understand" pillar of love is "feelings".

Friendship is the most important one pillar of mutual understanding, not only is the other party strengths advantages, shortcomings is shortcomings will be fully recognize. Only in this way can we proce friendship. Love is not that it is to each other after the beautification, regarded as an ideal proced in love, the whole process of main factor is affection.

Second, different status. The status of friendship "equality", love will "integration".

Between friends, same equal status position between each other, without extra polite, also does not have the worry concerns. If meet friends may, when to adverse advice freely, also want to be angry, even decission possible admonishment. Among friends, is such, have personality, also have severe were blare of contradictions. Love is not, it has the oneness, the body is two, but their hearts are for one, they're not mutual touch attack, but merging.

Third, system is different. Friendship is "open", love is a "closed".

Two men have a strong friendship, when the minded outlook on life and third party, the fourth person want to join the words, everyone will welcome. Love is not, the two are in love, if a third party, will give beside join from envy of mental state and eliminate the behavior of different has.

Fourth, basic difference. Friendship is based on "trust", love is laced with "upset".

A sincere friendship, have absolute engendered, like not divided the rock. On the contrary, a loving men and women, although not be not depend on each other, but always being surrounded by various uneasy, such as "I'm deeply in love with her, she is also deeply in love with me?" "His attitude slightly changed, whether still as before to love me?"

Fifth, mood different. Friendship with "enough sense", with "love is lack of sense".

When two people are intimate friends, both satisfy mood; But when two people once be lovers, although there will be temporary enough early move, can soon after, will bear no satisfaction, total hope to have more intense love guarantee, often have a "sense of lack of" followed, some worry feeling.

Generally speaking, everyone in a relationship, if not deceive ourselves, not in acting, can well reflect upon your own inner emotional trend, based on the above five indicators, carefully observe, introspection and comprehensive analysis, friendship and love is to correctly identify, can be in crossway of friendship and love can accurately orientation. Of course, the person's psychology and the behavior is complex, everyone can realize their behavior consequences, and always be subjected to experience reflects the refraction and the situation and personality, everything with time, place and conditions for transfer. So, with the observation and introspection glide based on judgement, unavoidably error, must make long-term, various comprehensive, eliminate the error.

In order to sincere friendship and pure love, we become intercourse attitude must grave and lively, can't affectation. We hope others treat yourself, how should treat people. This is the: "Confucius who the PE, undermines qinghe qinghe. Friend straight, friendly dare, friendly, and open a PE yi; then monarch, friendly soft, friendly and false, caustic yi."

It must be pointed out, some young friends in order to absorb each other's love, always like to his heart to knock each other, even at show off amorous feelings, worthless. Yes, love is the crystallization of the heart change, it is heart two heart to crash sparks, and its energy is the common ideal and pure sincere; Party wishes to impose is impossible, so make the outcome would backfire. There is a, is use the other weaknesses, play to impress the other coerce, benevolence, this kind of behavior to seek love most boring, it don't get real love, even though it is sex. Most bad, is to "finalised" and lingering, demanding "stimulus" to ensure that this kind of behavior is actually "playing with fire" attitude, ultimately to burn yourself or the other, or both destruction