怎麼看待家暴英語作文
⑴ 如何看待家庭暴力這一社會現象
以下不是我的回答,轉自知乎 @甜閣下 (尊重作者版權,侵權即刪)
以下是她對於家庭暴力現象的看法,我覺得很好,希望對你有幫助:
暴力是對人權的侵犯。
家庭暴力是指發生在家庭成員之間的暴力。
具有戀愛、同居等親密關系,以及曾經有過親密/配偶關系者之間的暴力也應該納入家庭暴力的范圍。
最高人民法院中國應用法學研究所2008年制定的《涉及家庭暴力婚姻案件審理指南》對家庭暴力的四種形式進行了解釋:1、身體暴力:加害人通過毆打或捆綁受暴者、或限制受暴者人身自由等使受暴者產生恐懼的行為;
2、性暴力:加害人強迫受暴者以其感到屈辱、恐懼、抵觸的方式接受性行為,或殘害受暴者性器官等性侵犯行為;
3、精神暴力:加害人以侮辱、謾罵、或者不予理睬、不給治病、不肯離婚等手段對受暴者進行精神折磨。使受暴者產生屈辱、恐懼、無價值等作為或不作為行為;
4、經濟控制:加害人通過對夫妻共同財產和家庭收支狀況的嚴格控制,摧毀受暴者自尊心、自信心或自我價值感,以達到控制受暴者的目的。
有調查顯示,家庭暴力的受暴者90%左右為女性。也就是說,仍然有10%左右的男性是施暴女性的受暴者。
家庭暴力的根源:
在探究家庭暴力的原因時,人們(尤其是施暴者)往往會找出許多具體的「原因」,例如施暴者有壓力、醉酒,或受害者「有錯」等。但這些「原因」都是表面的,或者說只是誘因。家庭暴力的根源在於不平等的社會性別關系,它深植於傳統的社會性別制度中,而這也正是家庭暴力廣泛存在並難以消除的原因所在。
家庭暴力反映出施暴者和受害者之間的權力控制關系。施暴者通過行使暴力向受害者顯示自己的權力,使受害者屈服和恐懼,由此實現和維持對受害者的支配和控制。
家庭暴力與傳統的性別角色規范和性別權力關系有密切的關系。社會文化鼓勵男性追求「陽剛」、「勇猛」,並允許和慫恿他們用暴力證明自己的地位和解決問題。與此相應,社會文化認為女性的價值低於男性,並應當服從男性的支配。這種文化實際上是在默許男性對女性的施暴,當一個大男子主義思想強烈的男性認為妻子或女友沒有忠實履行女性的屈從義務時,他就「有權」對她施行暴力。
任何人都不應該對暴力沉默,家庭暴力是公害,不是私事,受暴者的痛苦是一般人所不能體會的。如果你的家人朋友遭受家暴,請幫助他們。「白絲帶反對性別暴力男性公益熱線」為受性暴力、家庭暴力等性別暴力傷害者提供咨詢幫助,對性別暴力實施者及具有暴力傾向者提供行為改變的輔導。
研究家庭暴力,一定要導入社會性別視角。
什麼是社會性別?社會性別是社會對兩性及兩性關系的期待、要求和評價。社會性別在社會制度(政治、經濟、文化制度)和個人社會化過程中得到傳遞和鞏固。
換言之,生理性別不是造成兩性種種社會差異的直接依據,是社會性別文化形成了男女之間的差異,比如,在社會文化的描述下,形成了男外女內、男主女從的角色分工,男剛女柔、男才女貌的角色期待,男尊女卑、男優女劣的角色評價,男高女低、男強女弱的社會地位等等。
因此,從社會性別看兩性關系,男性對女性的歧視和偏見是普遍存在在人類生活的各個領域的客觀事實。在大的社會文化背景下,男性仍然在社會中處在主導地位,對女性實行著控制和支配。
在家庭生活領域中,家庭暴力反映出施暴者和受害者之間的權力控制關系。施暴者通過行使暴力向受害者顯示自己的權力,使受害者屈服和恐懼,由此實現和維持對受害者的支配和控制。家庭暴力的主控方,往往是男性。
在探究家庭暴力的原因時,人們(尤其是施暴者)往往會找出許多具體的「原因」,例如施暴者有壓力、醉酒,或受害者「有錯」等。但這些「原因」都是表面的,或者說只是誘因,不能僅僅認為是個人的人格和修養問題、或簡單的不良習慣,家庭暴力的根源就是性別歧視,不消除性別歧視,家庭暴力是非常難以消除的。
施暴者的行為可以在社會、家庭和個人因素三個方面來看待,施暴者的行為正是社會、家庭與個人因素互相促進互相影響的結果。施暴者的人格因素與社會和家庭的文化息息相關,根源仍然是性別的不平等。
傳統的社會兩性文化塑造了男性的優勢心理,社會文化鼓勵男性追求「陽剛」、「勇猛」,並允許和慫恿他們用暴力證明自己的地位和解決問題。與此相應,社會文化認為女性的價值低於男性,並應當服從男性的支配。這種文化實際上是在默許男性對女性的施暴,當一個大男子主義思想強烈的男性認為妻子或女友沒有忠實履行女性的屈從義務時,他就「有權」對她施行暴力。
家庭中有暴力的傳統是造成家庭暴力的重要原因,暴力是有可能通過行為學習和模仿直接傳遞給下一代的;家庭成員之間的關系緊張、態度敵對、溝通不良也是暴力發生的原因;由於經濟困難、子女教育問題、家庭變故的刺激、個人意見不合等造成的精神壓力和危機,也是暴力的影響因素。
個人因素方面,涉及了施暴者的人生經驗、行為的模仿和學習、人格因素。施暴者如果在兒童時期目睹暴力或遭受過暴力對待,會產生某種創傷性體驗,有可能會慢慢出現暴力傾向;施暴者在成長過程中形成的一些人格特質,可能使他們在整體對待自己、他人、家庭和社會的態度體繫上、行為方式上帶有性別歧視和暴力傾向,個人的特點包括自卑、依賴、低自尊、憎惡女性、能力缺乏、非理性信念等。
⑵ 拒絕家庭暴力英文
say no to the domestic violence
reject the domestic violence,back to warm home
⑶ 求一篇英語作文家庭暴力
The title is obscurring me. Why does your teacher ask you to write such a compozition in the middle-school? Family-violence often occurs between a husband and a wife.
⑷ 怎麼看待家暴
我非常反對家暴,這是一種違法行為。
產生家暴的原因:
1、與一個人的性格有很大關系,可以肯定的說喜歡家暴,喜歡動手的人,性格一般都比較偏激,遇到事情的時候不容易冷靜的處理,而喜歡採用一端極端暴力的方式來解決,到最後是不僅沒有解決問題,而且會讓事情變得越來越嚴重。
他們為了平衡內心的這種感情,也就是說,為了平衡自己內心,感覺自己付出了太多,沒有得到對方的一點愛一點關心,也就做出了沖動的暴力行為,當然這只是針對少部分。
不管怎麼說,家暴就是一種很極端的處理方式,當彼此之間遇到矛盾的時候,特別是家庭矛盾,不應該採用極端的暴力方式解決,不管彼此有沒有感情,都應該採用溝通的方法,就算不能有效溝通,那麼也應該控制好自己的情緒。
在家庭關系中,只能用感情,用愛來解決,如果說沒有感情,沒有愛了,只剩下了冷漠,猜忌不信任,不理解,家暴也是不能解決的,就算是最終家庭夫妻關系破裂,也應該多一點理智,少一點沖動。
⑸ 怎麼看待家暴,英語作文
家暴肯定是不允許的,對於家暴肯定是不好的,一定要禁止。
⑹ 你們如何看待家暴
家庭暴力幾乎佔到了所有記錄在案的暴力案 件1/4的比例。其受害者主要是女性和兒童。家 庭暴力中不太可能出現武器,受害者更容易受到 連續的拳腳相加以及被撞牆或者撞傢具的傷害, 也可能被卡住脖子窒息。這種攻擊並不是個案。
⑺ 求一篇關於家庭暴力的英文段落
一千六百多字,湊合吧
The Tragedy of Domestic Violence
Domestic Violence towards women is a problem that is often overlooked by
Society. Violence is defined by the Riverside Webster's Dictionary (p.755)
as: 1. Physical force employed so as to damage or injure. 2. As an
instance of violent action. If this is the case than why is it that so
many women are beaten by loved ones each year and little or nothing is
done to correct this violent and hostile situation? In this paper I will
attempt to answer this question along will a slue of others which place
women in these war zones each day.
"The battered women is pictured by most people as a small, fragile,
haggard person who might once have been pretty. She has several small
children, no job skills, and is economically dependent on her husband. It
is frequently assumed that she is poor and
from a minority group. She is accustomed to living in violence, and her
fearfulness and passivity are emphasized above all. Although some battered
women do fit this description, research proves it to be false
stereotype.''(Walker p.18) In fact most batte red women have highly
lucrative jobs such as doctors or lawyers, Corporation executives and
nurses. Most are heavy set women whose assets are controlled by there
husbands and cannot defend themselves physically. Battered women are found
in all racial, rel igious and ethical backgrounds as well as age groups
and ecational levels. ''Who are battered women? If you are a women,
there is a 50 percent chance it could be you!''(Walker p.19)
Statistical data on battered women is difficult to find because
most records are buried in medical records, domestic disturbance calls to
the police or the records of social service agencies. During my research
I found that characteristics in numerous c ategories for both the batterer
and battered were the same. Here is a list of those categories that were
the same or in a similar fashion the same for both indivials. Commonly
shared characteristics between Battered and Batterer. 1. Has low
self-esteem. 2. Believes all myths about battering relationships. 3. Is a
traditionalist about the home, strongly believes in family unity and his
or her roles in the family unit. As with the women all racial, religious,
ecational levels equally represent the men, cultures socioeconomic
groups. "Batterers typically deny that they have a problem, although they
are aware of it; and they become enraged if their women should reveal t he
true situation." (Walker p.36)
"Researchers Eisenberg and Micklow found 90 percent of the
batterers in their study had been in the military. Twenty five percent
received dishonorable discharges." (Walker p.37) These are some alarming
facts and characteristics about both the battered a nd the batterer. I was
unable to collect any data on the cause for this percentage of violence by
men of the military. Although it being a school of violence might have
some weight on the effects of this violence on women. Some of the
reasoning behind the se acts of physical and mental neglect may be
societies acceptance of such violence. We as a society are always calling
for more violence on television in the theater and on other indivials.
We pay for these sorts of entertainment, ask the government to
apply force on other nations and as the saying goes "sex and violence
sell." It is glorified in all forms of the media.
Why do battered women stay with there significant others? The
answer has many different angles; some stay for financial reasons others
for the traditional reasons. The fact is that they stay, but when is
enough? "After you live so many years, and you wak e up one day, and your
body has just about had it, you say, 'My God, I just can't take another
punch.' That's what happened to me. I just reached a point where I said,
'No more. Nothing is worth it.' I decided I would rather struggle and see
if I couldn't make it, so I just up and left, and that's been it." (Langley and Levy
p.111) This was the victim of spouse abuse for seventeen years. In another
case a women from Maryland described her experience. "Being beaten up is
the most degrading, humiliating, cr ushing kind of thing that could happen
to a person." (Langley and Levy p.116) in most cases the women feel that
they are the ones to blame for there battering and also apologize for
being beaten. "A women's decision to stay or go to seek help or suffer in
silence is often determined by the frequency of her beatings." (Langley
and Levy p.122)
When women do come to the end of the line and have finally worked
up enough courage to do it, to leave the one she loves so dear where does
she go? Well I would like to tell you that she calls for help via the
police or local athorities and receives the compassion and understanding
that she so deserves and needs in this time of uncertainty and doubt. But,
all too often she is meet with hostility and cynicism. "Usually, the
police, attorneys, prosecutors, public defenders, and even judges feel
they should not get involved in so called family problems." (Langley and Levy p.153)
One Detroit police officer is even quoted as saying, "there are no
rewards for refereeing a family fight." (Langley and Levy p.153) One of
the problems is the offense can be both criminal and civil matters. There
are in fact only three states that have l aws that deal directly with
spouse abuse, California, Hawaii, and Texas which make it an automatic
felony for a husband to beat his wife. The system however does not work in
the favor of the battered but rather in the favor of the batterer.
"Assault is a crime in every state. Since wife beating is a form of
assault, then wife beating is a crime in every state. In practice,
however, wife beating is not treated as a crime but as a civil matter.
Prosecutors deliberately look the other way even when a man adm its to
wife beating." (Langley and Levy p.154)
When the judicial system fails to help the abused, the abused must
turn elsewhere. Places such as crisis centers, church, or shelters. But in
many places there are no such places or organizations to help the abused,
then the abused must depend on communi ty help as well as family and
friends to help. Mostly with support groups and just by giving the abused
the compassion and support once sot by the abused in the judicial system.
One example of this disappointment in the system was found in the
Detroit Free Press, in an article headlined " Emergency Number Still Has
Kinks," reported: " near-breathless women, beaten by her husband, dialed
911 to ask for police assistance. 'Does he
have a weapon?' the operator asked.
" She answered he did not.
"Then I am sorry. We won't be able to help you,' the operator said
to the dismayed women." (Langley and Levy p.160) This lack of confidence
in the judicial system in return sends women a message of desperation,
fear and frustration. Many women in turn take the law into there own
hands, in a study done by the U.S Department of Justice between 1987 and
1991. "Approximate ly one in four attacks involved the use of a gun or
knife, according to the study. Young, black and Hispanic women were
especially vulnerable, as were poor single women with low ecation levels
who lived in inner cities. The findings were drawn from more
than 400,000 interviews." The Acting Bureau Director Lawrence A.
Greenfeld stated that "the number of women attacked by spouses, former
spouses, boyfriends, parents or children is more than 10 times higher than
the number of males attacked by such people ." It is clear to me that all
of us living in this great nation need to join hands in the fight against
Domestic Violence in the home, not just against women but children and men
as well. But for the purpose of this paper I would like to focus mainly on
the women of the American household. We as a society should take action
and compose social as well as political laws to rectify this situation.
There are no set standards, in fact police officers are told to not arrest
in cases of domestic violence calls. The reasoning is once again the civil matter of domestic violence being a "family problem".
In concluding this simply alarming and terrifyingly eye opening
subject matter I would like to suggest five areas in which we as a society
and human beings could help in altering the violence. Not just on women
but on women, children and minorities as w ell. 1. The expression of
violence is most commonly seen in the context of relationships 2. Current
policies to address personal violence are outdated and superficial. 3.
Violence does not effect everyone equally-it is ingrained in cultural
expressions of power and inequality. 4. Prevention of violence entails on
the positive in the context of the relationships, not just focusing on
indivial weaknesses or deviance. 5. Youth are important resources and
are part of the solution. I strongly believe in these five seemingly
simply and yet necessary areas. Not as a way of solving the domestic
problems of society today but as a way of depleting the number of cases of
domestic violence each year until a suitable set of guidelines or st
andards can be developed.
Works Cited
U.S Department of Justice Office of Justice Programs Bureau of
Justice Statistics Box 6000 Rockville, Maryland 20850
David A. Wolfe Christine Wekerle Katreena Scott Alternatives to Violence Empowering Youth to Develop Healthy Relationships Sage Publications 2455 Teller Road Thousand Oaks, California 91320
Evan Stark, Ph.D., M.S.W. Anne Flitcraft, M.D. Women At Risk Domestic Violence and Women's Health Sage Publications 2455 Teller Road Thousand Oaks, California 91320
Roger Langley Richard C. Levy Wife Beating: The Silent Crisis A Sunrise Book E.P. Dutton
201 Park Avenue South New York, N.Y. 10003
Lenore E. Walker The Battered Women Harper & Row, Publishers New York, Hagerstown, San Francisco, London
⑻ 如何看待家庭暴力即興評述
家庭暴力是一種非常常見,但又是錯誤的一種社會現象,我們應該拒絕家暴,因為家暴損害成家庭成員的身體健康和身心健康