英語閱讀迷之自信
⑴ 跪求50篇英語閱讀理解題（帶答案）
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No.4 middle School
Kunming ,yunnan
April 2nd ,2004
Dear editor (編輯) ，
I live in a beautiful city . Many visitors come to my city . there are so many colorful peacocks (孔雀) here .
The peacocks mostly live on the grass land of Dongfeng Square
They are given food freely by visitors . They usually throw food to them , and don』t think about at all whether the food is right or not . Some of the peacocks became ill , some even died after eating the bad food given by the visitors.
I』m sure most of the visitors who throw food to the peacocks really like the birds , but don』t realize (意識到) that they may be doing them harm (傷害).
The visitors should be told that what have done is very harmful to the birds , and this kind of thing must be stopped from happening .
Perhaps we can build some small shops beside Dongfeng Square to sell peacock food . For us every person , it』s our ty to give more love to these beautiful birds and to look after them carefully.
Yours,
Sun Yan
()6.Many visitors come to the writer』s city to __________.
A. do some shopping B. see beautiful peacocks
C. play on Dongfeng square D. eat nice food
()7.Some peacocks became ill and died because some visitors ______;
A. did』t give them any food B. gave them too much food
C. threw them some bad food D. loved them and played with them
()8.Some shops can be built beside Dongfeng Square so that they may _____________.
A.sell food for visitors B. sell food for peacocks
C.make the square more beautiful D.have the beautiful birds
()9.From the passage we know people should __________.
A. live and play with the birds
B. stop the birds from eating too much
C. give right food to the birds
D. give more food to the birds
()10.We can guess the writer of the letter, Sun Yan , may be a _____.
A. visitor B. shopkeeper C.square keeper D. student
6-10：B C B C D
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Every town in the United States has a post office . Some are very small , and you may also find them in the corner of a shop . Others are larger buildings . They are open five days a week and on Saturday mornings . From Monday through Friday they are usually open from 8:30 to 4:30 .
If you know how much the postage (郵資) is for your letter , you can buy stamps at any window. In some post offices you can buy stamps from machines . Stamps are sold many different prices , from one cent (美分) to many dollars . If you are not sure how much postage is for you letter , you may ask the man or the woman in the post office for help . he or she will give you the stamps you need . If you are sending your letter far away , you should use airmail envelopes (航空信封) . Remember that postage will be more expensive for a letter to be sent outside the country.
At a post office you can also buy postcards . A postcard is cheaper than a letter . Usually the price of postage for a postcard is about half that of a letter . The postcards that you buy at a post office do not have pictures . However ,also they are not to be sent outside the country .
Letters are an easy and cheap way to keep in touch with people in many different countries .
()11.The passage tell us that we can find ________ easily in the United States of America.
A. post office s B.large buildings
C.small shops D.different banks
()12.The post offices in the United States are open _________.
A.seven hours a day B.six hours a day
C.five hours a day D.eight hours a day
()13.If you are not sure how much postage is for your letter ,you can____.
A. go and buy stamps from the machine in the post officesend a cheap postcard instead of your letter
B. get in touch with somebody you know in the post office
C.ask the man or the woman in the post office for help
()14.The price of postage for ________ is more expensive.
A.a beautiful postcard B.a letter written on envelope
C.a letter by airmail D.a postcard with pictures
()15.The passage tells us something about ________ in the USA
A.the post B.the postage C.letters D.postcards
11-15 A D D C A
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Long, long ago there was a very foolish thief. Do you know what he did one day? When he wanted to steal(偷) the bell on his neighbour』s door, he walked up to the door, took hold of(抓住) the bell and pulled hard. The bell made a very loud noise. The thief was afraid and went home.
Then he sat down to think, 「I must do something about the noise,」 he said. He thought and thought. At last he had an idea. 「Ah, I』ll put some cotton in my ears. Then I won』t be able to hear the noise.」 The next day he went to the door of his neighbour, and took hold of the bell. This time he pulled even harder. The bell rang loudly, but the thief did not hear anything. With another hard pull he got the bell out. Just then the neighbour came running out.
「Steal my bell? I』ll teach you a lesson(教訓),」 the angry man shouted. And he hit the thief on the nose.
The foolish thief did not know how the neighbour found out he was stealing the bell. 「Why did he come out just then?」 he wondered (感到疑惑).
( )16. The thief was trying to get .
A. his neighbour B. his neighbour』s doorbell
C. some cotton D. a door with a bell on it
( )17. The thief put some cotton in his ears. He thought it would be for him to steal the doorbell.
A. safe B. difficult C. dangerous D. easy
( )18. The neighbour ran out probably(很可能) because .
A. he knew his doorbell was being stolen
B. he thought someone was eager (渴望的) to visit him
C. he realized (意識到) something strange happened
D. Both B and C
( )19. The neighbour hit the thief to .
A. give him lessons B. punish (懲罰) him for stealing
C. help him with the bell D. be his teacher
( )20. Which of the following is TRUE?
A. The thief understood why he was hit on the nose.
B. The thief knew why the neighbour came out.
C. The thief thought the neighbour couldn』t hear the noise the bell made.
D. The thief didn』t want to know why the neighbour ran out.
16-20 B A D B C
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A farmer was put in prison(監獄). One day, he got a letter from his wife.
「I am worried about out farm,」 she wrote. 「It』s time to plant potatoes ,
but I can』t do all the digging(挖) by myself.」
The farmer thought over and then had an idea. He wrote to his wife,「Don』t dig
the fields. This id where my gold(金子) is. Don』t plant potatoes until I comehome.
A few days later, the farmer got anther letter from his wife. It said, 「Two days
ago, about ten prison guards(監獄看守) came to our fields. It looked as if they were looking for something. They have g our field.」
The farmer wrote to his wife at once. 「Now you can plant our potatoes,」 he wrote.
( )21.The farmer was put in prison ________.
A. because he had done something wrong
B. because he had a lot of gold in the fields
C. The writer didn』t say anything about why the farmer was put in prison
D. For nothing
( )22.The farmer』s wife was much worried about _____ .
A. her husband B. their farm C. planting potatoes D. herself
( )23.The farmer told his wife __ first.
A. not to dig the fields B. to dig the fields
C. to ask the prison guards for help D. to find the gold in the fields
( )24.Why did the prison guards dig the farmer』s fields ?________.
A. They wanted to help the farmer
B. Their leader ordered them to do so
C. The farmer asked them to do so
D. They wanted to find out the gold
( )25.Why did the farmer ask his wife to plant potatoes at once ? Because _____.
A. their fields had been g
B. the gold was found out
C. the prison guards asked him to do so
D. the prison guards were digging the fields
21—25 C B A D A
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An owl is a bird with very large eyes. Those eyes make the owl look clever. The owl can not move its eyes freely as people can. It can only look straight ahead (朝前). If it wants to look at both sides, it must turn its neck.
Owls see better at night than ring the day. At night they look for food. They eat mice and insects.
Owls make a strange noise because the owls sleep most of the day. They usually give their cries at night. The cry sounds like 「Whoo! Whoo!」. This strange sound sometimes frightens people at night.
26. An owl looks clever because it can look straight ahead.
27. An owl looks for food at night because it sees better at night than ring the day.
28. An owl lives on all kinds of birds.
29. The cry of an owl is frightening.
30. Man must not kill owls because they are helpful to people.
26-30 B A B A A
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Coffee has become the most popular American drink. Today people in the United States drink more coffee than people in any of the other countries. People drink coffee at breakfast, at lunch, at dinner and between meals. They drink hot coffee or coffee with ice in it. They drink it at work and at home. They eat coffee ice-cream and coffee candy. Coffee is black and very strong. Different people like to drink it in different ways. Some people like coffee with cream or sugar in it. Other people like coffee with both cream and sugar in it. In all ways it is served. Coffee has become an international drink.
31. Coffee is an ____________ drink.
A . interesting B. international C. ice-cream D. American
32. Different people like to drink coffee ____________.
A. at work or at home B. in different ways C. with cream or sugar D. between meals
33. Today Americans drink ____________ coffee than people in any of the other countries.
A. as much as B. less C. more D. most
34. 「Coffee is black and very strong.」 The word STRONG here means ____________.
A.堅固的 B.淡的 C.清的 D.濃的
35. ____________ is the most popular American drink.
A. Black tea B. Coffee C. Water with ice D. Whisky
31-35 B B C D B
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Computers are useful machines. They can help people a lot in their everyday life. For example, they can help people save much time, and they can help people work out many problems they can』t do easily. Our country asks everyone to learn to use computers except the old people.
Today more and more families own computers. Parents buy computers for their children.
They hope computers can help them improve (提高) their studies in school. Yet many of the children use computers to play games, to watch video or to sing Karaoke, instead of studying. So many teachers and parents complain (抱怨) that computers can not help children to study but make them fall behind. So computers are locked by parents in the boxes.
In some other countries, even some scientists hate computers. They say computers let millions of people lost their jobs or bring them a lot of trouble.
Will computers really bring trouble to people or can they bring people happiness? It will be decided by people themselves.
36. Why do we say the computer is a useful machine? Because _______________.
A. our country asks us to learn it
B. it can help us a lot
C. we can use it to play games
D． it can help us to find jobs
37. What do many teachers and parents complain about? _______________.
A. Their students and children use computers to play games.
B. Computers let them lost their jobs.
C. Computers make the students and children fall behind.
D. Computers bring people a lot of trouble.
38. In this passage we know computers _______________.
A. also bring us trouble
B. bring us happiness only
C. are hated by people
D. are bad for people』s health
39. Can computers really help children to study? _______________.
A. Yes, they can. B. It』s hard to say C. No, they can』t. D. Of course not.
40. How do you understand the last sentence of this passage? I think it means _______.
A. computers are used by people
B. people can live well without computers
C. one must decide how to use computers
D. computers are strange machines
36-40 B C A A C
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Once upon a time there lived an old man. He had three sons. One day, he called them together and said, "Sons, I will die soon. To my oldest son I give half my camels, to my second, one-third(三分之一), and to my youngest, one-ninth (九分之一)." Soon after that he died.
Now, the old man had seventeen camels, and the three brothers didn't know how to do as their father said. They thought a long time about the problem, and it seemed that they must either kill some of the camels and cut them into pieces, or disobey their father. At last they went to their father's old friend and asked for his advice. As soon as he heard their story, he said, "I will help you. I was a good friend of your father's. I am old. I have only one camel, but take it-it is yours."
The three sons thanked the old man and took his camel. Now they found it was easy to do as their father wished, The oldest took half- that was nine camels; the second took one-third, that was six; and the youngest took one-ninth, that was two.
After each had got his camels, they found that there was still a camel there. So, to show their thanks to their father's friend, they gave the camel back to him
41. "Once upon a time" means " ________".
A. long long ago B. not very long ago
C. at once D. sometimes
42. The meaning of "disobey" in the second paragraph is" ________".
A. 服從 B. 違背 C. 聽從 D. 嘲笑
43. The meaning of "asked for his advice" in the second paragraph is " ________".
A. 向他請教 B. 問他數量 C. 批評他 D. 勸告他
44. The second old man ________the three brothers.
A. was good to B. was not good to C. didn't like D. cheated(哄騙)
45. Both the two old men in the story were ________.
A. foolish B. clever C. poor D. rich
41-45 A B A A B
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Tom lived by himself a long way from town. He hardly went to town, but one day he went into town to buy a few things. After he bought them, he went into a restaurant and sat down at a table. When he looked around, he saw some old people put glasses on before reading their newspapers. So after lunch he decided to go to a shop to buy himself one pair, too. He walked along the road, and soon found a shop.
The man in the shop let him try on a lot of glasses, but Tom always said, "No, I can't read with these."
The man became puzzled (迷惑的) , and he said, "Excuse me, but can you read?"
"No, of course I can't!" Tom said angrily. "If I could read before, do you think I would come here to buy your glasses?"
46. Tom lived ______.
A. with his family B. near town C. in the country D. in town
47. Tom didn't go to town______.
A. never B. often C. sometimes D. sometime
48. Why did Tom decide to buy a pair of glasses?
A. Because he thought if he bought them, he could read.
B. Because they were very bright.
C. Because they were cheap.
D. Because he could read newspaper.
49. Tom went to the shop to ______.
A. have a rest B. have dinner C. wear glasses D. buy a pair of glasses
46-49 C B A D
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We know mosquitoes very well. Mosquitoes fly everywhere. They can be found almost all over the world, and there are more than 2,500 kinds of them.
No one likes the mosquito. But the mosquito may decide if she loves you. She? Yes, she. The male mosquito doesn』t bite! Only the female mosquito bites because she needs blood to lay eggs. She is always looking for things or people she wants to bite. If she likes what she finds, she bites. But if she doesn』t like your blood, she will turn to someone else for more delicious blood. Next time a mosquito bites you, just remember you are chosen. You』re different from the others!
If the mosquito likes you, she lands on your body without letting you know. She bites you so quickly and quietly that you may not feel anything different. After she bites, you will have an itch(癢) on your body because she puts something from her mouth together with your blood. When the itch begins, she has flown away.
And then what happens? Well, after her delicious dinner, the mosquito feels tired. She wants to find a place to have a good rest. There, in a tree or on a wall, she begins to lay eggs, hundreds of eggs.
( )51.All the people don』t like mosquitoes.
( )52.All mosquitoes like to bite people for blood.
( )53.If a mosquito wants to bite you, it means she is very tired.
( )54.The mosquito bites you too quickly and quietly to let you know.
( )55.The itch begins after the mosquito flies away.
51-55 FFFTT
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Do you know why different animals or pests(昆蟲) have their special colours? Colours in them seem to be used mainly to protect themselves.
Some birds like eating locusts(蝗蟲), but birds cannot easily catch them. Why? It is because locusts change their colours together with the change of the colours of crops(莊稼). When crops are green, locusts look green. But as the harvest (收獲)time comes, locusts change to the same brown colour as crops have. Some other pests with different colours from plants are easily found and eaten by others. So they have to hide themselves for lives and appear only at night.
If you study the animal life, you』ll find the main use of colouring is to protect themselves. Bears, lions and other animals move quietly through forests. They cannot be easily seen by hunters. This is because they have the colours much like the trees.
Have you ever found an even more strange act? A kind of fish in the sea can send out a kind of very black liquid(液體) when it faces danger. While the liquid spreads over(散開), its enemies(敵人) cannot find it. And it immediately swims away. So it has lived up to now though it is not strong at all.
( )56.From the passage we learn that locusts________.
A. are small animals
B. are easily found by birds
C. are dangerous to their enemies
D. change their colours to protect themselves
( )57.How can pests with different colours from plants keep out of danger?
A. They run away quickly.
B. They have the colours much like their enemies.
C. They hide themselves by day and appear at night.
D. They have to move quietly.
( )58.Bears and lions can keep safe because________.
A. they have the colours much like the trees
B. they move quietly
C. they like brown and grey colours
D. they live in forests
( )59.Why can the kind of fish live up to now?
A. Because it is very big and strong.
Because the liquid it sends out can help it escape from its enemies.
B. Because the liquid it sends out can kill its enemies.
C. Because it swims faster than any other fish.
( )60.Which is the best title for this passage?
A. The Change of Colours for Animals and Pests.
B. Colours of Different Animals and pests.
C. The Main Use of Colours for Animals and Pests.
D. Some Animals and Pests.
56-60 D C A B C
但上面字數有限啊！
⑵ 為什麼我讀出一種迷之自信
如果你能有這種自信的話，那麼大家也是很贊揚的，無論什麼時候自信，必須要帶在自己的臉上才最好。
⑶ 怎樣提高高考英語的閱讀理解能力呢開學高三了，對英語閱讀理解題太不自信了，望高人指點，謝謝。。
大多數人在閱讀的時候，有很多不利於提高閱讀效率的習慣。以下簡介幾種：
1.音讀
很多人都有出聲閱讀的習慣。這種閱讀方式的主要弊端就是使閱讀速度和效率受到說速度的限制。因為正常默讀速度幾乎要比出聲朗讀的速度快兩倍以上。此外，出聲閱讀往往以不同方式表現出來，有時是唇誦，有時是喉誦。讀寫活動都會影響眼睛的掃視速度。因此，要克服這種不良的閱讀習慣，就要養成通過視覺器官直接感知文字元號的視讀能力。
2.心讀
心讀是一種很難覺察到的閱讀習慣。在閱讀的過程之中，人體的任何部位，包嘴，頭喉都不動。只是在心裡自言自語，一字一句地讀出每一個詞。由於這只是一種內在的說話方式，因此要改掉比較困難。所以要強制自己在深入理解文章的同時，還要強制自己加快閱讀速度，才可以逐漸改掉這種壞的習慣。
3.指讀
指讀就是用手指，鋼筆或其他東西指著一個一個詞進行閱讀的習慣。這種單純的機械運動不僅會嚴重影響閱讀的速度，而且還會把注意力引向錯誤的方向。況且對英語考生的要求不是考其注意單詞的位置，也不是讓其在每個單詞上都平均花費時間，而是讓他們把注意力集中在作者要闡明的思想內容上。恰恰是這種指讀的習慣妨礙了眼睛的運動，並限制了大腦快速活動的能力。因此，必須克服這種不良的閱讀習慣，逐漸養成用腦反映文字信息的能力。
4.復視
復視即回視，重讀現象。閱讀能力差的人往往過分依賴復視，以至於養成習慣。所以閱讀大量難度適宜的讀物，就不會因遇到生詞或不懂的短語，句子和段落而回過頭再來看，以至於養成復視的習慣。閱讀時要盡量控制自己，盡量做到一眼讀完就讀懂。如果這樣效果仍不明顯，可選用遮蓋訓練法，即看一行遮一行，使眼睛不重看。這樣反復聯練習可見成效。
5.頭的擺動
有的人在閱讀文章時，頭部會無意識地左右擺動。這也是一種不良的閱讀習慣。在閱讀的時候，他往往會使自己的鼻尖對准正在讀的每一個字。這樣一來，當他順著一行字往下讀的時候，就會輕微地擺動頭部。而當他開始另一行時，就會很快地轉回去，以便使鼻尖再次對准要讀的部分。這種情況下頭的擺動，自己往往自己意識不到。而正是這種不必要的動作，對閱讀速度產生影響。因此，在閱讀時要想辦法檢測並控制頭的移動，以便養成閱讀時只移動視線的習慣。
6.查字典
我們在做題的時候，往往會遇到部分生詞，有的人查字典尋詞義，而忽略採用猜測或邏輯推理的辦法加以解決。只是頻繁地查字典。這看似勤奮。實則用手代替了腦的思考。閱讀時，查生詞的次數過多，不僅影響閱讀理解，而且容易打斷閱讀的思路，不利於閱讀的進行和閱讀能力的培養。事實上，有很多詞完全可以根據上下文線索以及構詞法推測出來。比如上下文同義或反義現象，關聯詞，以及前綴和後綴等。
除了以上提到的各點之外，還有一些不良的閱讀習慣也會在一定程度上影響閱讀效果。比如說有人閱讀時心不在焉，有的學生一邊閱讀一邊轉筆，不時地發出聲響。有的人身體亂動，還有人過多地進行語法分析等現象。而這些現象頻繁的出現就會變成不良的習慣，影響閱讀的效果，應當予以糾正。
去和陳茂老師學習下吧，這方面會提高的很快的。
事先聲明：我只看到段落C，沒有D阿？？
段落C
十幾、二十歲是各個年齡段中人們最關注自身的外表，以及別人怎樣看待自己的階段。只有少數人願意在那個時候接受自己（本來的面目），也只有更加少的人敢於嘲笑潮流。
大部分的時尚雜志和電視廣告都在告誡我們應該怎樣穿，不應該怎樣穿。似乎唯有這樣，我們才有自信的社交，避免不必要的尷尬。今天之時尚已遠非衣著之狹義。就像專為男人服務的老式剃頭匠早已作古，而女人也決不可能像他們的母親、祖母那樣裝扮自己。電視廣告帶來最新的潮流資訊，時尚女性亦步亦趨，唯恐落得圈內友人譏笑的老古董下場。
究竟什麼才是時尚背後的手？時尚忽而是方便實用，忽而又是某個名人的隨性揮就。就拿帽子來說吧，三九寒天時，早先的房子裡面也是挺冷的，所以人們在屋裡屋外的都帶著帽子。後來，已故的肯尼迪總統摒棄了在屋內帶帽子的習慣，男人們紛紛效仿；而這大大打擊了美國帽業的景氣。
當然時尚也難免輪回。20世紀的歐美，短裙當道。二戰後，裙擺長達腳踝， 然後又慢慢縮短至迷你裙的款式，隨後的幾年裡，裙子的長度又回復20世紀的樣式。
今天的社會是有史以來最自由隨性的了。穿著上每個人都可以有自己的個性， 你完全有理由按自己的喜好打扮。牛仔褲、「乞丐裝」的大行其道就是對頂級昂貴服飾的回應。
現在，儀表在特定的場合仍然很重要，需要精心挑選穿著。穿著牛仔褲和毛衣去律師事務所面試顯然是個愚蠢的決定；穿著去海灘或酒吧的打扮去拜訪德高望重的學者會被認為失禮。但無論如何，如果你看著不像雜志里的廣告，不必沮喪，看看你的周圍，沒有一個人像雜志里的廣告。
⑸ 關於樹立自信的英語小短文120詞左右 要有中文翻譯
首先，你要有自信心，認為自己干什麼事情都能行，只有認識到通過自己的努力，自己一定能達到目標的。從心靈上確認自己能行，自己給自己鼓勁。只要有心理准備，你就不會為一點困難而退縮。相信，你就能充滿信心完成任務。世界在發展，時代在進步，人也要隨著時代的步伐前進。人的發展目標也在時時發生變化。只要你克服自卑心理，樹立自信心，做自己幸福的締造者。你只要有了自信心什麼困難都能克服，什麼事情都難不倒你；你的學業或者事業就會成功，你就是一個最有出息的年輕人。
當你擁有了自信，你還要學會廣交朋友，只有在朋友們推心置腹的話語中能給你一種安慰，一種大膽說話的機會，一種鍛煉你的場合，讓你不怕任何人，敢於表示自己的意見或建議，發表自己的見解。因為朋友能讓你遠離孤獨，才能融入社會而獲得快樂。 只有充滿了友情的人生才是充盈的，有意義的。有位哲人說：兩個人分擔一份痛苦，那就只有半個痛苦；兩個人分享一份快樂，則有兩份快樂。當你陷入困境，困窘急迫之時，忽然得到朋友的真誠幫助，即使只是平常的一句安慰、鼓勵的話語，你的心情會怎樣？是否會感到心靈得到了一種快慰的釋放，覺得一股暖流從心底升起，於是充滿信心，渾身是勁？當你獲得成功，欣喜萬分時，若得到朋友的真心祝福時，你的心情又會怎樣？是否感覺幸福。因此，增強你的自信心，就能消除自卑感。你就感覺自己是多麼自信！你在拾回自信的同時工作方面就能大展宏圖。
First, you need to be sure of oneself , think that what thing self does being able to make it, only when the cognition arrives at the effort passing self, self definitely can achieve self's aim. Self can make it from intelligent upper confirmation , self is encouraged by self. As long as having mentality prepare anastole , you cannot only be capable to do for one point is difficult. Believe that you are therefore likely to be full of confidence accomplishing a mission. The world is developing , the times is improving, person also wants to make progress with the times step. The target changes development of person also in happening from time to time. Set up self-confidence as long as you overcome an inferiority complex, act as self happy founder. What difficulty all can overcome as long as you having had self-confidence, what the thing all cannot beat you; Your self's studies or cause only is capable to do success , you are a most promising young person.
You have owned ding-dang be confident , you have wanted to learn to make friends broadly too, only when being able to give you a kind of to comfort in utterance being loyal in friendship in friends, one kind of the chance speaking courageously, a kind of takes your occasion exercise , lets you be not afraid of anybody, dare to express self idea or suggestion , announce self view. Because of the friend can make your be far from lonely, ability melts to become a member of society but acquisition is happy.
Not having the friendly sentiment life is dim, will not have luster like the earth has lost the sun illuminating. Not having the friendly sentiment life is monotonous, will resemble fire of the hope having accepted the damp match , not having got life no matter how you conflict with , also ignite. The life not having friendly sentiment also is imperfect life. One people lives in in the world , does not have friend's showing solicitude since not having a friend,how can understand real life delight?
Only when having been full of the friendly sentiment life is really full , have meaning. Have place sage say: Two people shares a agony , only has half agony; That two people share a portion happy , is happy have two share. Think that you are cornered , awkward when urgent, the sincerity getting a friend suddenly helps , is one conciliative even if only common , the utterance encouraging , your state of mind will be how? Being able to feel intelligent or not has got one kind of be glad release , has felt one strands of warm current rise deep down , has been full of confidence thereupon , has alive in every fiber? Ten thousand glad to think that you win out, time division, if when the sincerity blessing getting a friend, your state of mind meeting how? Whether feeling happiness or not. Therefore, strengthen your self-confidence , be therefore likely to remove an inferiority complex. You feel that self is to be confident what right away! You are therefore likely to ride on the crest of success in the field of ten time of self-confident at the same time job.
⑹ 美國孩子為什麼個個都迷之自信
在美國生活的十多年裡，我和機器人先生感觸最深的，就是美國人朝氣蓬勃、肆意張揚的個性。
自從機器人先生去給班上的孩子做過一次關於機器人的講座之後，只要每次遇到機器人先生，孩子們都會圍著機器人先生問這問那，一點都不怕生。
不拘場合，大大方方和成人對話，從從容容地提問，平視周圍的一切，不仰視不輕視，這是很多美國普通孩子的真實寫照。
我發現美國孩子有個共性，就是不管自己成績好壞、高矮胖瘦，來自哪裡，個個都是意氣風發、活靈活現的，誰都覺得自己很特別，是個人物。
換句話說，美國的孩子都特別自信。
同樣，美國的成人無論自己身處哪個階層，也都自信滿滿的。
當你出入豪華酒店，為你叫車的男孩不卑不亢，禮貌周到，你會感到他的自信。
記得一個訪美的亞洲官員講：我在國內時，別人見我就點頭哈腰，可是在美國，就連有些撿破爛的人腰板都挺得直直的??
每一個美國人，都活出了屬於自己的那份自信和自尊。
那麼，他們的自信是從何而來呢？誰給了他們這樣自我良好的感覺？
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源於美國的個性化教育
我想，首先這大概是和他們從小受到的個性化教育有關。
從進入學校的第一天起，美國孩子就踏上了發現自我、追求與眾不同的我的道路。
一個朋友來美國後，跟我聊過這樣的事：
國內的家長把孩子送進學校去，總是會問老師：我的孩子在學校表現怎麼樣？有沒有什麼問題呢？
她把孩子送進美國學校的時候，也問了同樣的問題。
金發碧眼的美國老師很是疑惑：你們中國人總是去研究孩子們的問題嗎？
其實，每一個孩子都是天使。讓我們用更多的精力去發現孩子們的可愛和他們的潛能吧！
鼓勵他們、引導他們，讓他們心中充滿自信、充滿光明，充滿歡樂，這樣孩子們才有更大的興趣去學習，才有更大的力量去戰勝困難??
美國老師們不僅是這么說的，也是這么做的。
從幼兒園開始，老師們引導孩子們用一些詞語來描述自己，展示自己獨特的個性和特長。比如幽默、開朗、樂於助人等等！
到了小學階段，老師們會鼓勵孩子們在全班同學面前公開演講，講自己有什麼優點、有什麼與眾不同的特長等等。
到了中學階段，就更加誇張了。
老師們讓每一個同學都說說自己有什麼夢想，有什麼宏圖大志，說自己的遠大抱負，說自己的意願實現之後，對國家乃至人類文明有什麼推動作用。
在美國，無論是學校教育還是家庭教育，都鼓勵孩子們去認識自我、伸張自我、表現自我，讓孩子們認識到了自己的與眾不同之處，最大程度地發揮自己的優勢和特長，活出自己的精彩。
這就是美國教育的基本原則：尊重每個生命的價值，開掘每個生命的潛能。
這不僅讓孩子們認識到自己的獨特性，同時也認識到了每個人之間的不同之處。但是大家相互之間只有不同，沒有優劣。
這種自我獨特性的認識、肯定和認同，在我看來，是一個人自信、自尊最牢固的基石。
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美國鼓勵孩子們追求自己的夢想
在中國，我們的孩子常常被問到理想的問題，大家的回答都比較相近，或者說比較符合遠大理想的標准：譬如說科學家、醫生、工程師等等。
在美國，老師也鼓勵孩子們在公開場合展示自己夢想，自己的宏圖大志。但是這個「宏圖大志」，可能會讓我們忍俊不禁。
比如，我兒子說，他未來的夢想是要成為一個農民，因為他覺得開拖拉機是一件很酷的事。
他班裡同學的宏圖大志，也都五花八門。
有的說要開奶茶店，有的要當模特，有的想騎車環游世界，有的想去沙漠種樹，有的想搞發明??
但是，兒子說，老師對每一個人都抱著鼓勵和贊賞的態度，她的評價都是這樣的：我太為你自豪！這也太酷了吧！孩子你的想法很棒！這個理想很有趣??
美國的學校教育和家庭教育，對孩子的夢想抱著非常開放的態度和多元化的價值評價，他們不會以主流價值觀來評判孩子的夢想，也不逼迫孩子去實現家長期待的某種價值或理想。
家長和老師們精心呵護孩子自己的夢想，希望孩子們幸福快樂，活出自己的精彩。
正是這樣的態度，讓孩子們自由自在地成長，無拘無束地發展自己，探索未來的無限可能。
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源自從小培養的批判性思維
有個剛剛送進美國的初中生跟我交流說，老師布置給的歷史作業太讓人匪夷所思了。
老師竟然讓他們去研究一下，美國的獨立宣言有什麼局限性！
要知道，美國的《獨立宣言》不僅被視為美國的立國之基，而且是資本主義最經典的法律思想文本之一。
《獨立宣言》被多少西方學者視為人類高尚道德精神和傑出智慧的結晶啊！
但是，美國的老師卻讓一群毛頭小子去思考《獨立宣言》的局限性！其實是在無形中告訴孩子們一種理念：你們可以對世間的一切進行思考！包括對神聖和權威的東西進行自己的思考。
美國教育一直鼓勵孩子們擁有挑戰權威的勇氣，也從小就開始培養他們的懷疑和反思的思維能力。
所以，美國人有時給人的感覺有點牛氣哄哄，什麼都敢懷疑，什麼都敢問為什麼，沒有什麼讓他們感到畏懼，感到不可冒犯。
一個不被任何權威所壓制的孩子，一個具備獨立思想和自由判斷的孩子，才具備真正的自信風度。
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源自父母無條件的愛
心理學家認為，孩子的自信，對自己作為一個人的價值的肯定，從根本上講是來自父母無條件的愛。
什麼是無條件的愛？
當孩子來到這個世界上，美國的父母會對孩子說：寶寶，無論你以後是健康還是病弱、聰明還是愚笨、聽話還是搗蛋、漂亮還是醜陋、學習成績好還是差，爸爸媽媽都會永遠愛你，養育你直至你成為獨立自主的人。
這就是無條件的愛。僅僅因為你是我的孩子，所以我愛你，和你是個什麼樣的孩子無關。
他們愛孩子，盡情地享受孩子的成長過程，享受孩子給自己帶來的快樂，用尊重、鼓勵、欣賞、信任的態度對待孩子。
有父母的愛在後面支撐，孩子在外面不管遇到了什麼，都無所畏懼：「我爸媽愛我，肯定我。」他心裡非常踏實，知道自己擁有取之不盡的力量，可以面對整個世界。
能做到無條件愛孩子的父母，他們本身也都是自信的人，對自己持肯定的態度，所以不會把自己沒有實現的理想強加到孩子身上，或者把自己沒有做到的事情逼著孩子去代為完成。
我們會發現，自信的父母給予孩子們無條件的愛和尊重，塑造了下一代自信的品格。這種親子關系形成了一種良性的循環互動，在一代代的流傳中，塑造了一種一以貫之的民族風采。這是非常值得我們借鑒的。
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信任和自由讓孩子們自信滿滿
很多中國的父母把孩子送進美國學校的時候，總是很擔心孩子的英文會跟不上。
美國的老師從來不擔心這個問題，總是安慰家長們：take it easy, just trust them！
相信孩子，是美國老師和美國家長對待孩子基本態度！
在中國，有一種冷，叫做媽媽覺得你冷。於是，我們總是三令五申地讓孩子們去穿衣服；看到孩子坐在地上，馬上大喊：地上很涼啊，你會感冒的！
相比較而言，美國的家長在照顧孩子這件事上，就非常粗放。任由孩子們光著腳丫子到處跑，甚至整個人都在泥漿里打滾。
這背後的差別，其實不在於關心不關心，而在於信任不信任。
我們總是會不自覺地懷疑自己的孩子，懷疑他們有沒有能力照顧自己，懷疑他們有沒有學習能力。
我們總是想過給孩子在生活上無微不至的關心和照顧，但正是這種緊密的關系，常常把孩子包裹束縛起來，也給孩子一種消極的暗示，你自己不能對自己負責，你還小，你太不懂事了??
而美國的家長給孩子絕對的信任，他們相信孩子有自己判斷，有自律、自省、自立的能力，能對自己的人生負責。
即便是孩子真的犯了錯誤，那又有什麼關系，孩子總是要獨立的，犯錯誤也是一種人生的歷練和經歷。
反復向孩子告誡或灌輸一個道理，是無法取代他們在成長過程中自由探索，以及犯錯後的自我反思和自我成長。
所以，作為父母，要給予孩子足夠的信任，也給予孩子足夠的自由去選擇，去嘗試，去犯錯。要知道，沒有經歷錯誤和挫折的人生，將缺少對困難的認識，甚至懷疑自己戰勝困難的意志力，因此就缺少挑戰未來、爭取成功的信心。
被信任的人，能自由探索未知的人，才有真正自信的風采。
教育家杜威說過，一切教育的最高目的是形成性格。在全球競爭日益激勵的時代，擁有自信的性格是一個孩子立足未來的根基所在。
如何讓孩子自信自強，是我們家長的責任，家長的首要任務，就是幫助孩子健全地發展自己，自信地面對未來。
古話說，他山之石可以攻玉。因此，反思美國孩子的自信的原動力，學習美式教育的精要所在，就顯得格外重要。
只要方法得當，我們也可以培養出自信滿滿的孩子，讓他們昂首闊步地走向自己的未來。
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大家好，我是蘭蘭媽，美國斯坦福大學、中國傳媒大學雙料碩士，育兒暢銷書《素養決定孩子的格局》作者，《中國教育報》、《當代教育家》、《中華家教》、《環球時報》特約撰稿人。在美國生活的十多年中，我一直致力於中美教育研究，倡導把美國教育中好的教育理念結合到中國教育現狀，並傳播回中國，「西為中用」，培養孩子成為適應未來全球化競爭的「世界公民」。
⑺ 找一篇通過自信而成功的英語小故事
Self-confidence
There are many factors that can contribute to a person』s success in life. Whether he is at school or at work, a person is more likely to succeed if he is hard-working, honest, intelligent, responsible, and so on. But of all the possible characteristics that can affect one』s success, I believe self-confidence to be the most important for the following reasons.
The first reason is that when a person has self-confidence he believes in himself. He believes that he can and will succeed, and this gives him the courage to try new things. In order to be successful we must be willing to take some risks, so having self-confidence is very important. Another reason is that a confident person rarely gives up. When he fails he tries again and again until he wins. A final reason is that confident people are not afraid to show off their achievements. This is not to say that they should brag, but that they should gracefully and confidently accept the compliments of others. When their achievements are noticed more by others at school or work, they are more likely to succeed.
In short, I believe self-confidence to be the most important factor in success. It enables people to take risks, try again when they fail, and enjoy their accomplishments when they win. With these abilities, a confident person can succeed easily at school or work.
自信
促成一個人成功的因素有很多。
不論是念書或工作，如果可以努力、誠實、聰明、負責任等，就比較有可能成功。但在所有可能影響成功與否的特點中，基於下列理由，我認為自信最重要。
第一個理由就是，當一個人有自信的時候，就會相信自己的能力。他會相信自己可以而且一定會成功，這一點讓他有勇氣嘗試新事物。想要成功，我們必須願意冒險，所以有自信是很重要的。另一個理由是，有信心的人很少放棄，即使失敗了，還是會不斷嘗試，直到成功。最後一個理由是，有信心的人不怕炫耀自己的成就，這並不表示他們應該自誇，而是應該優雅、有信心地接受別人的贊美。當他們在學業或工作上的成就更受人注目時，成功的可能性就更高了。
簡言之，我認為自信是成功最重要的因素。自信使人勇於冒險，失敗了會再接再厲，成功時能享受自己的成就。有了這些能力，有信心的人就能夠輕易地在學業或工作上獲得成功。
⑻ 關於自信與自卑的英語文章帶翻譯
I came to America when I was 12， I started gaining weight. Back in China， my friends and I walked everywhere. But in New York I was scared to get lost in my neighborhood， so I got into the habit of staying home. I just sat around all day eating.
By the time I was 16， I had stopped growing， but my weight kept increasing. I was 5』2」 and weighed 155 lbs. People began teasing me by calling me 「fat guy， 」「short guy」 and 「big head.」 I don』t think they meant to be cruel， but those words really hurt. Telling them to stop didn』t work， so I usually ignored what they said or tried to tease them back.
The truth is that it really hurt my feelings. Sometimes when I see myself in the mirror， I hate myself and ask why I have this body. I want to have a hot body and a handsome face. Being short and chubby makes me sick， and I feel jealous of my friends.
No One I Could Talk to
My heart felt like it was lost in the desert， waiting for someone to offer me water to drink. I had nobody to talk to about my true feelings. I don』t talk with my parents when difficult things happen to me， because I don』t want them to worry. They work long hours and they』re very tired when they get home late at night.
I wouldn』t want a teacher to get involved because I think that could make things worse. And I worry that if I talk to my friends about it， they』ll think I can』t take a joke. They might stop sharing things with me.
Shaping Up
For a while I blamed my parents. I decided it was my mom and dad』s fault that I was short since they were short， too.
「Is your height what caused me to be short？」 I asked my mom one day.
「What？ It isn』t me who caused you to be short， I fed you healthy foods，」 she said. 「It』s your problem that you』re too lazy to go outside to get some exercise！」
I thought she was probably right. Although my height was out of my control， I had the power to get more fit. So I asked my mom to sign me up for the YMCA， where I could work out. She was happy and told me if I worked hard at it， I』d see results.
The first day I went to the YMCA， I saw many perfect bodies with six packs and big muscles. I felt ashamed of my body. But I decided to learn to swim. It took me two months to teach myself； I practiced by observing other people.
As I practiced， I could feel myself getting stronger and faster. I thought I was fast enough to try swimming in the fast lane， but after a few laps， a man told me I was too slow. I felt really bad. My first thought was that my short legs and arms prevented me from swimming as fast. I also tried weightlifting， running， and the stationary bicycle. But I didn』t know how to use the equipment correctly. I felt hopeless and gave up on the YMCA.
I started staying home every day to play computer games. On the Internet you can create an avatar， or character， that looks any way you want it to. No one called me fat， short， or small. My life online felt better than my real life， and I got addicted to computer games. Soon， I』d gained five more pounds. I realized I was sitting in front of the computer too much， trying to forget the real world. I decided to give the YMCA another try.
A Triumphant Moment
Since then， I』ve gone to the YMCA more often， and even made a friend there who helps me out with equipment that I don』t know how to use. He also taught me how to keep my weight down. Now I』m training regularly and I feel good.
It has paid off. One day my friends asked me to go play basketball with them. We separated into two teams. I was the last one to be chosen because I don』t play that well. At first， every time I tried to get the ball as it bounced off the backboard after a shot， the other team was like a pack of tigers hunting for food. I couldn』t jump in between them and get the ball for my team.
Then， suddenly the ball bounced into my hands. It was like someone hit me with a stun gun—I didn』t think I could move， but I took the chance and shot the ball with my arms. The ball flew toward the basket and went in. I was so happy that I』d scored for my team.
At that moment I realized that I had the power to achieve. I might have different abilities， and maybe I don』t look as good as some others， but my differences are what make me who I am. I started to play different sports and discovered that I like handball. It』s fun， and you don』t need to be tall to be good at it. I really enjoy it.
英文閱讀：從自卑到自信
自從12歲來到美國以後，我的體重便開始增加。以前在中國的時候，我和朋友們總是四處走動，但在紐約，我很怕在附近走丟，所以養成了宅在家裡的習慣，整天就坐在家裡吃東西。
到16歲時，我就沒有再長高，但體重仍在不斷增加。身高5英尺2英寸（約1.57米），體重卻達155磅（約70.3公斤）。人們開始取笑我，喊我「胖子」、「矮冬瓜」和「大頭」。雖然我覺得他們並非出於惡意，但那些話真的讓我很受傷。我叫他們不要這樣，可是不起作用。所以我通常不去理會他們說什麼，或者試著反過來取笑他們。
然而事實是，他們的做法確實傷害了我的感情。有時候，當我看到鏡子里的自己，我恨自己，會問自己為什麼我有這樣的身體。我想有火辣的身材和英俊的相貌，這又矮又胖的模樣讓我惡心。我真嫉妒我的朋友。
無處訴苦
我的心就像在沙漠里迷路了一樣，等著有人給我水喝。沒有誰能傾聽我的心聲。遇到困境，我不會和父母訴說，因為我不想讓他們擔心。他們在外辛勞了一天，晚上很晚才回家，已經很累了。
我不想讓老師插手，因為我覺得那樣可能會使情況變得更糟。我也擔心如果我和朋友們說起這事，他們可能會認為我是個開不起玩笑的人，以後可能就不會再和我分享東西了。
振作起來
有一陣子，我把這事怪罪到父母頭上，認定這是父母的錯——我矮是因為他們也很矮。
「是你的身高導致我這么矮的吧？」有一天我這么問媽媽。
「什麼？不是我導致你矮，我給你吃的都是健康的食物，」她說。「那是你的問題，因為你連到外面做運動都懶得去！」
我想，或許她說得沒錯。雖然我的身高不是我能掌控的，但我還是有能力讓身材苗條一點。於是我讓媽媽幫我報名參加基督教青年會，在那裡我可以進行鍛煉。她很高興，並對我說只要我努力，一定能看到成效。
我去青年會的第一天就看到許多有六塊腹肌和壯碩肌肉的完美身材，我為自己的身體感到羞愧。我決定去學游泳。通過觀察別人，我用了兩個月的時間自學游泳。
隨著不斷的練習，我感覺到自己變得越來越強壯了，速度也越來越快了。我認為我的速度已經夠快，可以到快速泳道試試水，可是遊了幾個來回之後，有人對我說我的速度太慢了。我感覺很糟。我首先想到的是我的小短腿和小短胳膊制約了我的速度。我也試過舉重、跑步和騎固定自行車，但我不知道如何正確使用那些運動器械。最後，我在絕望之中放棄了青年會。
我又開始每天窩在家裡玩電腦游戲。在網上，你可以創造一個替身或角色，把它打造成你想要的任何樣子。在網上，沒有人會喊我胖、矮或小個子。我的網路生活比我的現實生活感覺好多了，於是我開始沉迷在電腦游戲之中。很快我又胖了5磅（約2.27公斤）。我意識到我坐在電腦前太久了，試圖忘記現實世界。於是，我決定再回青年會試試。
勝利時刻
從那時起，我去青年會的次數多了起來。我還和那裡的一個人成為了朋友，他不僅教我使用運動器械，還教我如何讓體重降下來。現在我定期去鍛煉，感覺很好。
我的努力已經初見成效。有一天，我的朋友們叫我一起去打籃球。我們分成兩隊，我是最後一個被選的人，因為我打得不是很好。一開始，每次我想搶籃板球的時候，另一隊的人就像一群獵食的老虎似的，我一點也插不上手，沒法為我們隊搶到球。
突然，球彈到了我的手中。我就像被電槍擊中一樣——我感覺動彈不得，但我抓住了機會，振臂投籃。球飛向了籃筐，進了！我為我們隊得分了，我高興極了。
那一刻，我意識到我有能力實現目標。也許我的能力和別人不同，或者不像其他一些人看起來那麼棒，但我的與眾不同之處才是真實的我。我開始嘗試各種不同的運動，並發現自己喜歡手球。這運動很好玩，而且你不需要身材高大才能玩得好。我樂在其中呢。
⑼ 怎樣擁有迷之自信
擁有自信的人來成功率高，生活源得充實。
其實，擁有自信心就是要做好自己。
但是，許多人在尋求的路上不知道怎樣有自信，怎樣才能找到自己需要的自信心？
那麼，自信心究竟是什麼？「知道自己在做什麼」、「覺得自己的人生過得很有意義。」、「覺得自己的每一天很充實」、「有困難努力去克服……」。
其實，我也曾經困惑過，不知道自己在做什麼。也曾經覺得人生很沒意義。在工作之初曾經害怕跟人說話，說話的時候，我就會臉紅、心跳，不知所措且語無倫次。
為什麼我會有了自信？會讓別人感覺我有自信？
建築自信心像在蓋一棟堅固的房子，你得有耐心先打地基，壘磚頭，一層層把房子蓋起來才行。也就是說，自信心要靠一些材料「壘」出來。 材料不實，房子經受不住風雨的考驗，天長日久大家會看清楚，你只是「半杯水」。就像人的外表打扮得光鮮，裡面的衣物卻是廉價的貨色，只可能讓人覺得你外表靚麗，里頭的行頭相互摩擦，靜電頻發。外表粉飾得再好，你也不會有自信。自信的背後要有很實在的東西，要有那種能讓你「直起腰桿」的東西。